How To Attract The Girls

Every guy out there can be attractive to girls if he understands exactly what girls find attractive. It doesn’t matter what a guy looks like, because girls tend to see a man as a package, and if a guy has more good qualities than bad qualities, then his chances of winning over a girl are very good. Following are some secrets on how to attract the girls that every man wants. If you use the following advice wisely, then your chances of attracting beautiful girls are very high.

Tip 1 – Do Not Enter The Friend Zone

The first thing a girl does when she sees you is size you up to determine whether you are a potential friend or lover. If she categorizes you as a friend then it will be very hard to win over her attraction. However, if she categorizes you as a potential lover then you have a very good chance of winning over. The point is that you have to be sexually attractive to her or else you’re going be put in the friend zone.

There are a few things you can do to stay sexually attractive to girls.

1. Act Sexy, Not Cute

No matter how cute you are, you can still appear sexy if you act in a sexy way. For instance, a sexy guy will smile at girls knowingly whereas a cute guy will giggle. Or, a cute guy will grab woman’s hand while a sexy guy will caress it. The best way to act sexy is to feel sexy. When you feel sexy, you naturally express it through your actions, words and gestures.

A great way to start feeling sexier about yourself it to use affirmations. Affirmations are simply things that you tell yourself and start to believe in. For instance, if you tell yourself that you are not sexy, then you are going to believe that you are not sexy. Therefore, continuously tell yourself positive things such as, “I am sexy!” or “I am a great catch!” in order to help yourself feel more sexy.

2. Act Like A Man

As far as attitude is concerned, it is important to find a balance between the nice guy and the jerk in order to appear sexy. A nice guy will instantly go into the friend zone with a girl, whereas a jerk will instantly go into the ‘I’m not dating this guy!’ zone.

You have to find a balance in between the two if you want to appear sexy. Think of it this way, a sexy guy is a manly guy. A man stands up for his girl and will protect her when she needs protecting. He will not let her walk all over him, but he will be supportive of her feelings, needs and beliefs. If you can be that guy, then you can be a sexy guy.

3. Dress To Impress

Research has shown that girls are naturally attracted to a man who they think can provide for them and their future family. This is an instinctual attraction that girls have towards a man, and if you look financially and emotionally well off, then a girl will instinctively be attracted towards you.

The best way to appear financially and emotionally well off is to dress the part. Statistics have shown that girls are more likely to engage with a man (even if he wants a one night stand) if he is dressed well. Use that knowledge to your advantage and always dress to impress.

4. Use Your Body Language Well

Body language says a lot about you, and girls are very capable of reading a guy’s body language. Girls will determine how confident you are, what your intention is, and what they really think of you before you even open your mouth. Therefore, it is very important to understand what your body language is saying as you approach and interact with girls.

First, what you are thinking on the inside usually manifests on the outside. Even if you are completely confident in yourself on the inside, body language that says otherwise will not convince a girl of your confidence. Therefore, if you make nervous gestures as you talk to a girl, she will feel as though you are nervous and not confident in yourself. Since confidence is one of the sexiest things a man can have, you will be likely get put into the friend zone and she will become uninterested.

Second, eye contact is a huge part of body language because it says a lot about your intentions. For instance, if you are nervously glancing around, then she will feel as though you are nervous on the inside. If you look away while you are talking to a girl then she will feel as though you are disinterested in her, which will turn her off.

However, if you look a girl in the eyes while you are talking to her, then she will feel as though you’re confident and interested in her, which will win her attraction. Interestingly, friends tend to maintain about 60% to 70% eye contact while they are engaged in a conversation. Therefore, if you give a girl any less eye contact than that, she may feel as if you are disinterested, so try to give her about 80% eye contact. That will let her know that you are interested in her. Any more than that and you can become aggressive or creepy looking, which will scare her away from you.

Even if you are not talking to a girl, eye contact can say a lot about how you feel about her and influence how she feels about you. Therefore, if you see a girl you like make sure you engage in some sort of eye contact with her to let her know that you are interested. If she returns the eye contact, then there is a good chance she is interested too.

If you really want to be sure that she is interested in you before you approach her then try this: Look at her and when she engages in eye contact with you look away after a few seconds. Then, look back in a few moments – if she also looks back at you then the chances are very high that she is interested in you, and you should take the opportunity to approach her.

Tip 2 – Have An Attitude Of Confidence And Believe In Yourself

Confidence is the number one thing that attracts girls. When a girl has categorized you as a potential lover, you have to keep her interested by displaying a high level of confidence. Even if she initially found you sexy, a lack of confidence and cause her to lose interest in you very quickly.

The best way to act confidence is to feel confident. And the best way to feel confident is to be knowledgeable about your strengths and weaknesses, and about girls in general. If you are still reading this, then you are on your way to becoming more knowledgeable about what girls want, but figuring out your strengths and weakness is completely up to you.

It is important to acknowledge your strengths and believe in yourself and your ability to get a girl. You have a ton of great qualities that make you a great catch; you just have to find them and then believe in them. If you don’t believe in yourself, then how can you expect a girl to believe in you? In short, if you don’t believe in yourself then you will fail with a girl before you have even tried to win her over.

If you are finding it hard to be confident, then try to act as you would around your friends. You are probably at your most confident level when you’re with your friends, so this is a great place to start from. Of course, you still want to maintain a level of sexiness in order to attract her, but if you can stay calm and relaxed like you are around your friends, then you will appear very confident.

There are a few things you can do to appear more confident instantly. For instance, dressing well will not only make you feel sexier, it will make you feel more confident also.

Other things that can increase your confidence are:

– Good posture: The way you hold yourself has a huge influence over how you feel about yourself. Always stand straight with your shoulders back and head up in order to feel more confident.

– Positive thinking: If you think you are a loser, then you will feel like a loser. Alternatively, if you think you are a great catch for any girl then you will feel like a great catch for any girl. Ensure you always think positively about yourself and your abilities to get a girl.

– Taking action: In this life, you are always in one of two phases. You are either reacting or creating. When you are in a reacting phase, you tend to worry or get anxious. However, when you are creating phase, you go out and take action on what you want. Therefore, if you want to feel confident, make sure you are in a creating phase (approach her, ask her out, engage in conversation) and you won’t have time to react to the situation and appear worried or nervous.

Tip 3 – Make Yourself Stand Out In The Crowd

This is a huge tip on how to attract the girls. You have to stand out from the crowd if you want to be seen. You have to make yourself unique so that she notices you among all the other guys that she crosses paths with during her day.

The truth is that a girl is probably being hit on many times throughout her day, and crossing paths with hundreds of men in her day, and she doesn’t have to time notice or remember all of them. If you blend in with these guys, then she may not notice you at all.

Fortunately, because most guys tend to use the same approach and techniques, it is very easy to stand out among the crowd. Following are a few things you can do.

1. Be Honest And Respect Yourself

Honesty is very refreshing to a girl, and since many men pretend to be someone they are not, a man was is obviously being honest about who he is will stand out in the crowd. Therefore, show a girl that you are not scared to be yourself.

Another great aspect of being honest with a girl is that it shows that you respect yourself. When you respect yourself, you do not allow yourself to be walked on and treated poorly, and most girls will find that kind of attitude extremely attractive and refreshing.

One way to be honest is to use sincere pickup lines. Instead of giving her cheesy lines that you heard off the Internet, try pointing out an obvious positive that she has about herself. For instance, if she is long brown hair then tell her how pretty you think long brown hair is. If she is playing a guitar, then tell her how talented she is. When you use pickup lines that are specific towards her, she will feel as though you are being honest instead of just trying to win over by whatever method is necessary.

2. Be Positive

Small talk is commonly full of negative words and has a very negative tone. Most people tend to engage with others as if they were the 6 o’clock news. For instance, they talk about how bad the weather is or how horrible the latest tragedy was. If you want to stand out from the crowd then try talking about positive things.

Being positive does not mean that you have to talk about lollipops and rainbows; it is just a matter of focusing on the positive rather than negative. For instance, instead of talking about how bad the weather is talk about how great it is.

Being positive does more than just make you stand out from the crowd. A girl is not looking for a man who makes her feel bad in life. A girl is looking for a man who will add to her life in a positive way and make her happy. Therefore, if you are positive a girl will be attracted to your demeanor and be able to picture herself with you in the future.

Tip 4 – Focus On Your Personality

Girls are attracted to many different things in a man, and personality is definitely one of them. Of course you have to be positive and confident in order to win over a girl; however there are a few other things that girls love as well.

For instance, humor is a huge part of being attractive to a girl. But the humor has to be genuine and funny. Some guys think they are funny, but in actuality they are rude or arrogant.

How do you know if you are funny or not? The only way to find out is to ask your friends and family what they think about your humor. Don’t take their criticism too hard. Instead, use it to improve your sense of humor.

Also, add a little bit of mystery to yourself because girls love a man who has a little bit of mystery. Making yourself mysterious tugs at their imagination and makes them want to know more about you. There are a few ways to make yourself more mysterious.

1. Don’t Give Up All Your Information

You don’t want to be completely silent while engaging with a girl, but you also do not want to give away all of your interests, hobbies and beliefs. Therefore, don’t reveal everything there is to know about yourself, and try to keep some surprises for her to discover down the road.

2. Don’t Act Desperate

Many guys will be available for a girl anytime she wants to see him, and this can start to appear desperate and needy. But a guy who has a calendar full of activities and engagements will be much more attractive to a girl because she will imagine what it is he is doing with his time, and that will keep her interest on him. This doesn’t mean that you should be the only one who decides when and where to meet a girl, but it does mean that you should not always be available.

In the end, any guy can win over any girl if he knows what girls are looking for. Use the above tips on how to attract the girls to your advantage, and become the guy that stands out from the crowd in all the right ways.

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